A popular post on X has sparked controversy following reports of a Nigerian man in the UK who allegedly called off his wedding due to the bride price being an exorbitant ₦3.5 million.
He had been in a long-distance relationship with a Nigerian woman and sought advice from a social media influencer regarding marriage.
Despite the challenges of being apart, he was dedicated and had plans to help her pursue studies overseas.
However, the situation took a turn when the woman’s family presented him with a list of bride prices totaling ₦3.5 million.
The man shared his worries with the influencer, saying that the bride agreed with her family’s demands, pointing to Nigeria’s high living costs as the reason.
Feeling frustrated, he likened these demands to “selling a child” and questioned how a marriage could begin under such financial pressure. He believed that his intentions to invest in the woman’s future abroad should have been more valued.
The influencer’s full statement reads:
“There’s this guy on my platform who met a lady here in Nigeria while he’s in the UK. Despite the challenges of a long-distance relationship, he was committed to her.
“He even sought my advice, and I encouraged him to go for it. But yesterday, he reached out to me, distraught, after receiving a bride price list from her family totaling ₦3.5 million.
“We had a lengthy and emotional discussion. His pain wasn’t just the list itself but the fact that the woman he loves supports her family’s demands, claiming everything is expensive in Nigeria.”
“Why should anyone demand such an outrageous amount just for marriage? Doesn’t that set the tone for the man to treat her like he ‘bought’ her? It’s a shame, and I hope women learn from this. This man had genuine plans to take her abroad and pay for her education. Now, because of greed, the family has lost a good man.”
“He told me yesterday he’s no longer interested and plans to block her. He said he would cry, heal, and move on with his life. I feel bad for the lady—if only she had a more understanding family and stood up for herself. She’s about to lose a good man without even knowing it.”
The story has sparked discussions online, with many criticizing the high bride price demands. They are urging families to consider the long-term benefits rather than just seeking quick financial gain.
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